We moved to the outskirts and love it, sadly we are moving again. I find myself more settled laid back living in the country. When I lived in Milton I found I was always on the go, if I forgot milk I ran out to the store to get it right away and a trip to the store meant you were back out of the house so let's stop in for ice cream at Jays... 2 hours later I was back home. Now when we get home we stay home, we do without whatever we don't have till the next time we go to town. I love it, we have a hamack in the trees that we Use cause Country life is relaxing.
We have not lost power too much maybe an hour here and there but nothing major (except the icestorm) Country is the last to be fixed as it effects the least amount of people.
Don't be afraid of well and septic. As stated earlier well water is drinkable you just need to get it tested periodically. Water Test is a free service, septic is also nothing to worry about. The taps and toilets all run the same, you just need to be smart and not worry about watering your grass in a draught.
The major difference is most Country homes don't have natural gas. Some homes have propane furnace which you have to call and order propane or you will run out. We have an electric furnace which I like cause I never have to worry about running out. Our bill does get higher in the winter months but really we pay under $500 a month equal billing. This is our "Only Bill" as we have no sewer, water or gas bill. So even if the house has an electric furnace it's not a bad thing. Plus now they are coming in with energy saving furnaces.
When you have guest over there is parking and your neighbours can't here you.
Best thing ever sitting on my front porch, sipping my morning coffee and watching my little hummingbird buzz but my head. Its a curious little guy likes to hover in front of me. I think he likes coffee...lol
One more added bonus the school bus picks up and drops off your child right at the end of your driveway.